Anwar White responds to someone struggling to meet men by suggesting she quit dating apps and pursue herself instead. Return to hobbies you loved as a kid, like tennis. Joy and play attract people more than desperation does.
Ray says I'm struggling with meeting men. What? What to pursue me? Who maybe who want to pursue me. And I have had no luck on the apps. Well, girl, take a break. Chill out. My question for you is what are you doing to pursue yourself?
Yeah, what are you doing to find you? Because here's the thing. I think a lot of people are like center men. And so if nothing's happening with men, they think that life is over or like disappointing and all of that, girl. No shade. But these men, what, what can you do right now to create amazing, a well rounded life and happiness within yourself? That's the question that I have for you. So my behind. I just started getting back into tennis to find that fun part of myself again. Because for many black and brown women, oftentimes your childhoods are like robbed from you. No shade. And so you actually become an adult really quickly. And having success in dating is like actually having fun. So how can you find that little girl within? That's the question for you and everyone else on this life.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
