Anwar White explains why your misery pushes your guy away. You have to do the inner work to find out why you're unhappy, because negativity drives disconnection. He shares how he used to be a raging, mean girl until he cleaned that up and started attracting healthier men.
Ivy Kane said, I'm so miserable. How do I get out of this? Well, I don't know why you're miserable, girl. So you're gonna have to figure out why you're so miserable. Because here's the thing. Happy people get into healthy relationships and get married.
That's just kind of how it goes. So if you are miserable, if you are no shade a bitch, if you are negative and pessimistic, clean it up. Clean it up. And I'm saying this as someone who was a raging, mean girl bitch back in my former life before I got my healing girl.
Right, Huge defense mechanisms here.
So you got to clean it up before you are going to get your person.
It's not going to work because all that shit's just going to create disconnection in the relationship. You can get into relationships. That's. That's not. That's not the hard part, actually. You can lower your standards and get into a relationship with any guy, but this is about getting into relationship with healthy men, and healthy men are actually going to be attracted to healthy women.