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What should you expect from a man who is courting you?

Name: What should you expect from a man who is courting you?
Uploaded: 2024-03-07T14:48:43+00:00
Duration: 1 min 13 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) advising about courting expectations: the speaker argues it’s unrealistic to expect 100% effort immediately from a…

7 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) advising about courting expectations: the speaker argues it’s unrealistic to expect 100% effort immediately from a man who is courting you, and instead recommends observing whether effort increases over time (start mid and trend upward) to assess sincerity and sustainability. The talk uses informal examples (good morning/good night messages) and direct address to the audience.

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My problem is I'm very picky and if I feel like they aren't giving me 100% immediately, I'm done. Men that are courting you don't have to give you 100% while they're courting you. They get to, they get to do things on their pace, at their pace.
The fact that you're expecting that and they don't know you is unrealistic. Now, what we are looking for and what we want to be an observation of if is the effort increasing with time. That's what we want to. That's what we want to know. Because here's the thing and here's the. Here's the problem with when you believe that he should be giving you 100% from the get go. Because starting at 100%, there's only one way that that will go. Amusing part six. Flex girl. Down, girl. And then you're going to be tripping. Well, he used to give me seven good morning messages and five good night messages and now he only gives me one of each girl. It's not sustainable. That's why you don't you. Most of y' all will get this. And I'm saying go mid and go up here, honey. Yeah.