What the GYG Program is Really About

Hello. Hello. Hello, my loves. I hope you're doing well today. Don't mind me. Canada is literally giving a fake a roo when it comes to spring, and it's really cold today, so I have my little neck warmer here. Now, for those of you that don't know who I am, I've gotten a lot of new followers as of recently. My name is Anwar White, and I am the CEO and founder of get yout Guy Coaching. And I help amazing women heal their hearts, meet quality men, and get into the best relationship of their lives. And today I wanted to talk about what it really looks like and feels like to work with me, right? Why am I talking about this? I'm talking about this because so many people think that the work is just about dating, right? It's about, okay, what do I say? What do I text him, okay, when he says this, what should I say? Or what should I do if he does this or all of that, right? And I want to let you know that this work is so much deeper than just what to do and what to say for a man. This work is not about a man. It never has been, it never will be. Right? You will never hear me talk about and focus and center men in your life. The focus will always be about you and how you show up in your love life, but in your life in general, right? Because here's the thing. How you do one thing is how you do everything. So when we talk about what this program is going to look like, I want you to be really clear that we'll probably be talking about dating a man for a third of the time. The other third of the time, we're going to be talking about why you think, feel how you're triggered, what your past experiences have been. And then the other third of the time is we're going to talk about everything else that's going on in your life, right? So it's talking about work. What's going on at work. How can you create different relationships at work? How can you be more vulnerable and feel more connected, Right? There's no, like, you know, there's no coincidence that I would say roughly half of the clients that I work with get a promotion at work because they're showing up differently, with more confidence, right? With better boundaries. And their general happiness and calmness has allowed them to produce the best work that they can and be happier while doing it. Right? We're also going to be focused on your familial relationship, especially the ones that are focused with your family and siblings, right? But mostly your parents, specifically, because those are really the foundation of your actual relationship. Relationships, right? Your adult romantic relationships. I always tell my clients the way that you enter into adult romantic relationships is with the mind of as you were when you were a young woman, you know, growing up. Right? So it is important for us to understand what that is so that we can unprogram that and reprogram it in a way that's going to better serve you. So we're not just talking about men and dating. We're talking about your own healing. We're talking about how you show up at work. We're talking about what sort of relationship you have with your parents and what sort of boundaries you need to set with them so that you maintain your happiness, your peace, your joy, your centeredness. We also are going to talk about how you engage in your friendships, right? Your friendships especially. I'm talking to those women that haven't had a lot of romantic relationships are a great foundation and a great way of looking at how you're going to show up in long term relationships. Right? So we're going to take a look at that and here's the thing. And you'll hear this from a lot of different coaches from a variety of different industries. When you start healing, a lot of those relationships are going to go away because you're going to have different standards, different expectations, different boundaries. And not everyone's going to like the new you. And that's okay. But here's what I want to offer to you. When you let some of these relationships go, you are creating more space and energy for your person, for your guy to come in there and actually level up all of the relationships and how you're showing up. Right? Here's what I want to offer to you. This work is not about getting a guy. Even though that's the name of my company, that that's really for marketing purposes. I'm also a professor of marketing as well. But it is also about becoming the woman that is ready for the best relationship of her life. That's what this work is about, right? Men will come and go. And I'm sure that you've seen that in the past, right? But there are some men that are actually really great that we mess up or we self sabotage because we don't think that we're worthy enough, that we don't have the confidence to actually engage in this relationship as our true selves, that we actually are playing small and playing 50% of ourselves instead of playing with our authentic selves. I want to offer to you that if that is something that you're interested in, then the get yout Guide program is specifically for you. This is about taking up space in all of your relationships instead of just showing up as your 50% self. This is about speaking up when you have things to say. Both from an intellectual perspective, but also from a heart and emotional perspective, which for many of my clients is a huge block or hindrance to actually doing that for a variety of different reasons. But we'll go into those reasons so that you can heal from them.

We're also going to be talking about, you know, not just work and parents and friendships, right? But we will be talking about you, who you want to be. What is your future self, how does she live her life? What does she do? What relationships does she have? Right? What does her life look like? So we are going to be moving you from where you are now to. To where you idealize and imagine your future self to be. This is not about the guy. This is about you. This is about managing your emotions and being able to regulate them. This is about being able to manage your triggers and also alleviate some of them or let them go. This is about how you listen to other people or not and how to improve that. This is about how you communicate with people so people can understand you and hear you and respond accordingly versus maybe feel on the defensive. This is about you learning to be more accepting and less judgmental. This work is about you. It is not about getting the guy. I know that when you focus on you and you do that work, you will get the guy, right? If you are doing everything that is taught in the program and you are coachable, you're going to get your guy. That's why the results are so good. Because we have a multifaceted approach to focusing on you.

If you're thinking that this is about getting the guy, I want to offer to you that this work is something different. You'll get your guy. That's the cherry on top. You can get into a relationship tomorrow if you wanted to, but that's actually not success. Success is finding the highest version of yourself and being able to live in that and in the everyday. The work that I do is life transformational and life changing. So I do want to invite you that there are going to be moments that are going to be uncomfortable. There are moments that I'm going to ask you to do things that are not going to feel good because you are not used to doing them. But I know that that's what it's going to take to get you from where you are now to your future self within your future self. You'll be able to get not just your guy, but many guys, right? And then you become the chooser and not the chosen. Okay, so this work is much more than just getting a guy. This is about getting yourself, getting the highest version of yourself. Right? That's what this is about. So if that's something that you're interested in, if you're ready to actually invest in yourself and do the things that are necessary to make those changes.

I want to invite you to my program. I talked about my program, I think, yesterday, and you can check that out on my post and figure out what's included in my program. If you have more questions, you can definitely reach out to me in my DMs, or you can book a free complimentary consultation in my bio or at www.getyourguycoaching.com. and that is where we will talk all about your love life, but not just about your love life, about you, how you show up in the world where you have the relationships and where are the opportunities for you to actually level up. Right? Because that will give you clarity in terms of why you aren't accomplishing certain things in your love life, but also in probably other parts of your life, right? In your friendships, relationships with your family, with work. There's a variety of different things that you probably want to improve upon, but maybe you feel a bit stuck right now, and my program is to help you get unstuck.

A lot of my clients have told me that this work is, yes, I'm a dating coach, and yes, I'm a relationship coach, and yes, I get my clients into great relationships. But most of my clients have said that this is just. This is life coaching, what I do. And I agree with them. I am a life coach, but I use the realm of dating and relationships to help you level up and help you see beyond who you think you are right now. Because what I know is that there is so much more. And sometimes we need another person or a program or a coach or a therapist to help us see that. And I want to be that for you. So if that's something that you're interested in, you better contact me, girl, stop playing games, stop hesitating, stop procrastinating on this or other things in your life. Right? Sometimes I have clients that sign up with me and then take a month or two to actually get into the work. That's okay, too. There's time. And if this isn't your time, I'm going to honor that and respect that. But if you know that you are hesitating because.

You feel like you're scared, then we should talk about that. If you feel like you're not ready, that's one thing, right? If you feel like you're scared, we should talk about that. Because.

It'S hard to be scared of what you don't know, right? If I'm able to be hand in hand, side by side with you at every step of the way in your love journey, you got to know. Especially with more than 10 years of experience, I got you. You will be protected. You will have a confidant, you will have a friend, you will have a coach, you will have a therapist. You will have a best friend, you will have a play cousin, you will have a brother. You will have all of that helping you achieve your love goals. So if that's something that you are interested in doing, I want to invite you to reach out and let's talk about it again. These consultations and you reaching out via dm, it's just a conversation. It doesn't hurt you and I can promise you that it will help you. I literally just had a conversation in my DMs 20 minutes ago and blew her mind. Right? So I want to let you know we have about a week left. My program closes at the end of this month. So April 1st, April Fool's Day. Don't be a fool, girl. Don't be a fool. You better have signed up for this program so that you can be getting your guy. So we have about a week left and then my doors close and I don't know, I think I'm going to open them up maybe three, four, five months from now. So if you are wanting to get your guy in the summertime, in spring and summer, then I want to invite you to reach out to me and I look forward to hearing from you because I know that we're going to rock this out and do it together, right? 85% of my clients are getting their guy in my six month program. And of those, roughly 2/3 of them are either getting married or engaged within two years. So if that is something that you are interested in, if that is something that you want.

You should reach out to me. Those are great results, but those results don't happen and don't come along unless you do the work about yourself. I promise you. I promise you. Promise you, promise you, right? Part of my work is helping you get the right guy. Research says that 89% of women will get married in their lifetime. Right. I'm not here to just marry people with any Joe Schmo off the street. I want you to actually get your guy so that it's a perfect alignment and that it's a perfect couple. So that this can be your forever guy, not just a guy that you get married to and then within five years you divorce because you just wanted to be married, because you thought that that was part of your plan and you just wanted to follow the plan that you have been programmed to think that you need to follow. Follow. Right. That's not what this is about. This is about knowing who you are, getting really clear on that so that you can be clear on who is going to best complement and align with you. Right. Quiet. As it's kept. Many of us are walking around like zombies and don't know who we are right now. So my program is to help you get there and for you to figure it out on your own and not just figure out who. Who you are. Because a lot of people try to figure out who they are based on who they've been. Right. And if you're a wounded child with a lot of inner childhood wounds, that identity is not going to serve you. What I do in my program is I help you align with the identity of your future self. Right. Because that's the woman, not the girl who's going to help you get to your goals. Right. And that's the work. Okay. All right, my loves. I hope that this was really helpful as we continue to think about what this looks like and what kind of work is happening. This work is about you. It's not about what to text him and never will be. Right. Because you can text him one way, you can text him another way, he's going to respond in a. Probably a similar way.

So anyway, much love to you and reach out to me if this is something that you are ready to do and you're tired of being lonely and frustrated and just disappointed and you just want to like rock this out finally. Alrighty. Alright, bye. Bye.