Anwar White on dating athletes, musicians, and wealthy men: their careers come first, you may be number four in their life, infidelity is common, and you could end up parenting alone. He warns that ambition and availability make cheating likely.
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Oh. Ken west said, I have an NFL player right now.
But we are doing the friends with benefits. However, I want to be more hover. He said he's focused on goals and God right now. He. He not focused on God, girl.
That's already a lie.
Okay? So, okay, y' all are. Any advice.
Sis, here's what I want to offer to you and anyone else that wants to get with a.
Actor, musical artist, a very wealthy man or an athlete.
His goals will be number one.
He will be number two.
His mama will be number three.
You may be number four. You're not even on the podium, girl. You're not even getting a medal. No, shade. That's why you're friends with benefits now. And I'm saying this with love. I'm not. I'm not saying this to come for you, because I've actually been that girl who has been with someone in the limelight and who's gotten the cars in the middle of the night and has been summoned like some sort of concubine, right? So I'm coming from a place of girl, been there, done that, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
That's number one.
Number two, he will cheat. And it's not just because he's an athlete, but it is because he is ambitious and ambitious. People want more.
Nothing will satisfy them. They will always want more.
Yeah.
That'S why they will cheat. They will also want more of you. They will never accept you for who you are. They will always want you to be better and more.
Number three.
Because they are so ambitious and focused on their own goals.
You will lack the support that you need to level up in your own life. And you will be a single parent.
To these men.
If you are to have children with them.
Number four.
They into some kinky shit, girl.
When you can have.
20 women a day and when sex is just like a. I literally. I could turn this way and get it. I can turn this way and get it.
Regular sex becomes boring. That's why they. A lot of these. A lot of these men are going with boys and they get in that kinky stuff. That's why when the girls go to Dubai and they get pooped on, girl, it's because those rich men, they've had it already. Regular sex is boring.
They got to go even more and more and more.
So if you want to get into that girl, no judgment here. We're all family. But I think. I think it's important to understand what that looks like.
Some of these other dating coach would be like, get it, girl. Get your money. Hook them in, girl.
Girl.
Stay away. A lot of the girls are mad because, you know, all of those. All of those NFL draft E's have white women on their. On their. On their shoulders, on their arms. Let those white women have them. Girl.
It'S. It's. It is not a flex.
They will suffer.
Yeah.
Don't. Don't. Just because they look cute on the sidelines? Girl, please understand? And know that once they leave that stadium? Girl, that smile becomes a frown real fast.
Yeah.
I'm just trying to share my tea. Girl, take what resonates with you.
