Anwar White breaks down dating multiple men as a time management problem: give each partner about 33% of your attention instead of 100%, rank them gold/silver/bronze, and batch your texts so you're not stopping what you're doing every time someone messages.
Someone said, I get tired of talking to them. So this is what you do when you're. When you're dating multiple men, because y' all are treating each man and giving 100% to each man. Because y' all go hard in the paint. Instead of giving 100% to five different men. Or let's just go three different men. Gold medalist, silver medalists, bronze medalists. If you do it the way that you naturally do it, giving 300% of yourself away, instead, I want you to give 33% to each of these men. They just get a little bit of you. That's it. So what does that look like? That looks like I text all of my men at the same time. I don't stop everything that I'm doing when a guy texts me. Honey, these guys are getting me in. Breakfast time.
Lunchtime.
Dinner time.
Honey, you gotta batch the communication. You hear me?
That's how you manage these men. Because we're managers.
Okay?
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
