Anwar White tells a woman to leave her boyfriend of three years who won't commit. Men show their intentions within two years, he says. Don't be a placeholder. His clients get engaged or married within two years of joining his program.
Heidi said, dated a guy for three years, won't commit. Leave him. A guy knows if he wants to be with you within two years. In my program, if my clients are not engaged or married within two years because we only date built men, we don't build with men. Then you're a placeholder. Or he's not ready to. He's not ready to be a family man, a provider.
I want you to be that girl. It's three years now, but like, literally, you'll blink. It'll be five or six years, nine or 10 years. And all of us know those girls, and we say, oh, yeah, they're still together. No, they're not. Married girl and no shape. But everybody feels bad for her because everybody knows what the tea is. It is very rare that someone will marry you after five years. After two years, don't be that girl.
You get to let them know, hey, I'm looking for.
Looking for marriage. If that's not something that you feel like you can do, totally get it. I'm gonna move on.
You. I need to let him know.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
