Anwar White calls the body count question trash and a sign of male insecurity. He cites research linking higher partner counts to cheating and divorce, but says the real issue is that men asking this question aren't worth your time.
Navia said, Coach, I don't know if you already answered this because I got a call, but how do you feel about a man asking you about body count while just starting to get to know them?
Trash. When I say trash, I mean throw them away.
Inappropriate.
None of his business, and it doesn't matter. A lot of guys will ask this because they're really insecure. Only insecure men ask this because the research says that if someone, man or woman, has a higher body count, they have a higher probability of leaving, a higher probability of cheating, a higher probability of divorce. And when a woman when you have a higher body count, it means that you are more valuable in the mating market. And it means that he can't feel like you are fully his when he is with you because you can go with anybody at any time.
So that's why I say only insecure men will ask that question. It is not a purity test. It's not a purity test. These men have sex with anybody and everybody. Boys, girls, corpses, girl. Apparently lizards.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
