Anwar White says if a man is at least a 5, give attraction time to grow. Practical qualities like reliability matter more than looks long-term, and chasing an overly attractive partner to validate yourself is a trap.
Amari said, God sent me an angel I'm not attracted to. Well, girl.
Get on your knees, close your eyes and pray. And have him next to you.
If he is 5 or above. Give him time, girl. That might. That attraction might increase. Here's the gag. The gag is.
Attraction is overrated because 30 or 40 years from now, it's. It's not going to be about your attraction level to him. It's about. It's going to be about whether he can take you to your doctor's appointments. Yeah. And no shade. A lot of. A lot of women really want hot and attractive guys, but.
You don't want a guy hotter than you. You want to be the prize of your relationship. Yeah, a lot of us, especially if you're a woman of color, you have this like, messaging in society. Society that's like, oh my God, you're not the prize. You're not beautiful. And so you will hyper focus on finding a guy that's super attractive to make yourself feel attractive. And you don't need to do that. So for the ladies, that. That resonates with and that is true for. I just want you to like, internalize that message. If you don't have that, don't fight me in the comments.
Yeah.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
