Short YouTube advice clip by Anwar White (uploaded April 17, 2024) advising people who go to bars alone to appear open and attract conversation. Key guidance: proactively engage nearby people (bartender, neighbors), avoid using your phone or isolating behaviors, and project openness so others feel less likely to be rejected.
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I want to go out to a bar by myself, but I'm nervous. What if no one talks to me? Girl, start talking to the bartender. Start talking to the people next to you. Boy or girl, doesn't matter. Just start talking. Because when you start engaging with multiple people, then the guys who actually want to talk to you will be more apt to actually approach you and start a conversation, because they see that you're open. When you are on your phone or by yourself or doing all of that, you're not going to look like you're open to connect. And they want to see that because most of these guys are being rejected most of the time. So you want to. You want them to understand you're probably not going to get rejected. We're like, we'll have a conversation and have fun. But, yeah, like, let's talk. Yeah.