A 2025 YouTube video in which a single speaker offers dating advice about attracting ‘feminized’ men versus masculine partners. The speaker links attraction patterns to a person’s presented energy (masculine or feminine), profile photos and language, and warns about attracting both feminine men and potentially hyper/’toxic’ masculine men. The speaker also comments on political labels in dating profiles (e.g., “conservative”/“moderate”) and how men may shift labels to be more palatable.
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I keep getting feminine men matching with me, but I'm into masculine guys, personally. Help. It's probably because you have a. Maybe a. Like, if you have a masculine energy, you're going to attract more feminized men.
Yeah. So it's in the way that you might be taking pictures or the pictures that you choose on your profile. It might be the language that you use. Are you forceful? Are you direct? Matter of fact, do you use feeling words? Do you not?
Here's how I think about it. It's 2025. You get to be in whatever energy that you want to be in. So I don't care what any of these femininity coaches say. If you want to be in your masculine, do that. But realize that relationships are about the yin and the yang. So you will be attracting more feminine men. Right.
And unfortunately, you will also start attracting more hyper or toxic masculine men that will try to forcibly.
Make you submit into your feminine.
That you get to stay in your masculine. In my program, I ask each and every one of my clients, what energy do you want to be in? What feels most natural to you?
And then we go from there.
Yeah. Okay. So if they have. Just FYI, because I'm getting a lot of comments about conservative men. If it says conservative on their profile, they're maga. If they say moderate, they're conservative or Republican.
You need to understand that when you're dating in this Trump era, a lot of them are going to shift over one so that they can be more palatable and get more matches.
But whatever they're doing, let them know they're a little bit more conservative.