Anwar White says if your guy hasn't proposed after two years, especially if you're 25 or older, he's probably not committed. He suggests a partner should decide within six months and propose by year one or two. Fewer fancy dates might mean he's saving for a ring.
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Mocha said, my boyfriend won't marry me if he hasn't engaged within two years. It's probably. He. He's probably not into it. Don't be one of these women that is with a guy for five and six years and doesn't have a ring. Because if you don't have a ring, if you. You're not married, if you haven't gone through the wedding, you are a placeholder.
And I'm sorry to be very harsh about it, but. But I want to be really clear so that you. It can wake you up if you find yourself in this situation. Now I'm talking to women that are 25 and older. If you're 22, girl.
Girl, he barely got his degree. Hopefully he not ready for it. But if you're 35 and you've been with a guy since you were 30, this is prime years. Prime, prime real estate. That's why I say two years. I get people into relationships at least three women every week. I know what it looks like. I know a lot of people are like, oh, my God, two years is so soon. When a guy knows, he knows, he does not play around with you.
After six months, he will know if he wants to marry you or not.
After a year, he's probably going to be in prep mode, saving mode for those next six months and propose to you. If at any point you're with a man and you start realizing that the dates aren't as extravagant as they used to, it's not because he doesn't like you. It's not because he's being lazy. It's because he's saving.
A lot of girls. I see this happen because I also have a relationship program called the get your ring program. A lot of people, a lot of the women who get their guys in my program go into the get your ring program, and they will. I see this a lot. He's not taking me out as much as he used to. He's saying things like, oh, yeah, that's a little expensive. I don't know if I want to go to that thing. That's because he's gonna get you a really great ring, and he's gonna try to make sure that the wedding is amazing. If the guy is your guy. That's what it looks like.