A short advice monologue by Anwar White about how women should respond when a man asks why she didn't offer to pay the bill. The speaker recommends being direct, and if the man insists that she should have paid, to cease contact; he frames such insistence as a sign of male insecurity and contrasts it with 'true masculine energy' tied to financial self-sufficiency.
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Miss T said he asked why. Said she didn't offer to pay the bill. If a guy is asking you that, just let him know. I didn't want to offend you. I thought that you had taken care of it. A lot of men feel emasculated when a woman offers to pay the bill. And he said, oh, no, that's not me. Let him know, no problem. And then after the date.
Don'T talk to him again. Like, let him go. Let him know, oh, I don't think it's a good fit, girl, if he can't just pay. Here's the thing about, like, men that are ready, they don't need that offer.
That's fake. We all know that he doesn't need that. The guys who need that are insecure about money and need to feel like you're gonna be his security blanket if his money gets low.
No, you want a man who doesn't need a security blanket when his money gets low because he has the skills to just stack up his money.
A man in his true masculine energy won't need your help in that regard.