Short advice monologue (YouTube video) describing three flirting styles—physical (eyes/smile/touch), intellectual (banter, playfully challenge), and emotional (appreciation/compliments)—and recommending three conversation openers to use at the gym: a genuine compliment, asking for a product/equipment recommendation, or asking for help with weights. The speaker emphasizes first identifying your natural flirt style, then using one of the openers to "open up the space" and observe how the person responds.
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Austin said good morning. Got any tips for flirting with a stranger handsome man in the gym?
Yeah, tons. But it depends. On what, what kind of flirt you are. There are three kinds of flirts. There is the physical flirt, eyes, smile, touching. There is the intellectual flirt where I'm gonna give you banter, where I'm gonna give you like intellectual shit and poke holes in your and your argument. And then there's going to be emotional flirts where you are showing appreciation and gratitude and complimenting. So in the chat, ladies, let me know what kind of flirt you are. Yeah, cuz the, the biggest mistake in flirting is that you try. Everybody tries to go for the first physical flirt, but that might not be your natural flirt.
Yeah. So there, those are the three. So first, know what your flirty is. Now that you know that what your flirty is. Now we have to open the conversation. And my favorite ways of doing this are three ways I'm always going to give a compliment to a man. Girl, the walls go down immediately, especially at the gym. Wow, your arms look really buff today, right? Oh my God, I love those, those gloves. Where did you get them?
Right? Ask for a recommendation. That's the second way. The third way is to ask for help. Hey, can you help put this, can you help me put this weight on, please?
Yeah. Your job is just to start it what I call open up the space and then let's see how he, he rocks it on from there. Okay, so one, figure out your flirt mode and then or flirt style and then open up the space with one of those openings.
