Anwar White warns against obsessing over one group of men, using black coffee as a metaphor. Fixating on Black men specifically causes you to lose personal power. He advises dating widely instead of limiting yourself to one type.
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Hey. Miranda said I do antwer every day, all day. I'm just crazy about my black men. Here's the thing. When you. When you wake up like that, the first thing that I want you to do is I want you to make coffee and I want you to drink it straight black. That's your black man.
That's your black man. Now after that, go and date everybody.
Yes, honey. Bitter. Because that's what they are. Okay, now I'm gone.
Yes, honey.
Yeah. Never be crazy about anyone, honey. If a man has that much hold over you, girl, you've already lost. If you are thinking about black men all the time, you've lost your power, girl.
You lost it. Someone said black coffee is healthier though, girl. Then drink it every morning. Drink it every morning.