Anwar White explains why women often feel more emotionally attached after sex: orgasms trigger bonding hormones like oxytocin and serotonin, while men's vasopressin receptors work differently. He frames it as biology, not morality, and suggests waiting for exclusivity.
Tess said, chemical bonding. Elaborate. So do you know those girls that, like, hook up with a guy and he's, like, not worth anything and.
But she's, like, addicted to him, right? And you're like, girl, he's like, he doesn't have anything going on, but she can't get enough of him. She's addicted to him because she's chemically bonded to him. Because her orgasm has created all of these different bonding hormones. The oxytocin, the serotonin, the so many other bonding hormones that she literally feels bonded to him. Like, she's basically in love with him. That's what happens. And that's why it's. That's why I always say, wait until exclusivity so that you have time to evaluate much more of a man. If you're hooking up with a guy and you don't know him. Like, there's a high chance most women will chemically bond to a man, right? And the opposite side happens with men. Like, what will happen is when they hook up with a woman, oftentimes they will feel less connected and less bonded to them because their vasopressin receptors haven't fully developed, and their vasopressin goes down. So they're actually gonna feel like, I don't even like her. That's why so many guys, like.
Hit and quit and run away. It's chemical. It's hormonal. That's why I'm not a prude girl. I'm the same girl who would kiss six guys in one night. Like, I'm a kissing hoe, right? But I just know that it can be really dangerous.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
