Anwar White tells plus-size women to stop shrinking, build confidence like Naomi Campbell, and enforce hard boundaries on your body. He says 90 to 95 percent of men who comment on your appearance are buttering you up.
About 90–95%.
Gorgeous. Kari said. Hey, you got any dating advice for plus sized woman? Abby.
What is the advice? The advice is.
Literally take up space. I think so many curvier women are trying to shrink themselves, literally or figuratively. And you don't need to do that.
Number two, you need to have the supreme level of confidence. If you don't have Naomi Campbell confidence, you're not ready to date. No shade.
Number three, don't let any man touch your body. Don't let anyone, any man say anything about your body. He is trying to butter you up. He is trying to.
He thinks that you're probably insecure about your body, so he's going to like, say this so that you think that he's. Oh, he's different. He see me and he loves me and all that. Yeah, girl. He's probably buttering you up. He thinks that you don't give a about your body, so he thinks that he can do whatever he wants with it. And this is for not all men, but I would say it's like 90, 95 of the guys out there. That's why he says something about your body. He's out blocked. He touches your body on a first date out. Literally walk out of the date.
It's not going anywhere. Nothing good can come of it.
Yeah.
Hope that helps.
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