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What's my opinion on men who are close with their mom?

Name: What's my opinion on men who are close with their mom?
Uploaded: 2024-04-09T13:55:44+00:00
Duration: 1 min 1 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short monologue discussing how men who are very close to their mothers—particularly those raised in single Black mother households in the 1990s—may…

9 Apr 2024 · 1 min

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A short monologue discussing how men who are very close to their mothers—particularly those raised in single Black mother households in the 1990s—may carry relationship patterns into romantic partnerships. The speaker argues such men can be enmeshed with their mothers, expect to be served rather than serve, replicate maternal dynamics (overprotective/critical or permissive/spoiling), and therefore may avoid commitment or project maternal behaviors onto partners.

Jill said men that are too close to their moms, here's the thing, and you have to clock that mother relationship because a lot of mothers, especially black mothers, you have to understand that like two thirds of households in the 90s.
Single black mother households, so that relationship is often complicated and unique. Yeah.
They might be enmeshed. She might have spoiled him. She might have like entitled him. So if he's, if she's still doing things for him.
She, he's looking for a replacement of that. He doesn't want to serve you. He wants to be served like his mother was serving him. If his mother was overly aggressive, masculine energy, overly critical and judgmental, he will project that onto you.
Yeah. Or he won't commit.
Because he feels like he, he wants to feel in control and he doesn't feel in control in relationships with women based on his relationship with his mom.
Yes.