Short monologue (YouTube) arguing against the idea that “time is running out” for finding love. The speaker emphasizes personal healing, readiness, humility (rejecting superiority), and humanizing potential partners so one can form deeper, lasting relationships when prepared. The piece is motivational and reflective, aimed at people who feel pressured by age or timing in dating.
Chapters
I want to. I want to. I want to offer something because I think it's really important. And I've heard this a couple of times with some of my clients. They keep on saying, time is running out. I'm too old.
No.
Time is running out or has run out. If you're dead.
You'Re not dead yet.
You get to experience your life, your forever love when you're ready.
And I'm saying this because as someone who had to do significant, serious work earlier in my life 20 years ago, I was not ready. And I can say that now. My heart wasn't open. I thought I was better than everybody else. Right. I have this, like, superiority, inferiority complex that also creates disconnection in your dating and your love life. I had to do the work. I had to do the work to be able to actually relate to other people.
Very important.
You're not running out of time.
I do think it's very important for you to make sure that you center yourself in your healing work so that you are ready for the best relationship of your life when your person comes.
Someone said, but you were better, right? No. I used my education and my career status as a defense mechanism to not actually deeply connect with other people.
I wasn't better. I was the same. We're all equal in love.
And the quicker that you all understand that, the quicker you will start to actually make deeper connections with other individuals.
Yeah.
Can't. Can't have that mentality in love and dating. If you keep on thinking that men are lame and losers and purrs, and one of my clients said it so well.
I finally have humanized men.
Once you're able to do that, then you can find the humanity within yourself.
Which is very important.
Very important.
Can't.
If you think you're better than other people, then at some point in love, you're gonna think that other people are better than you.
