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What's the danger of dating a guy who isn't on your level?

Name: What's the danger of dating a guy who isn't on your level?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:45:36.658274
Duration: 20 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) arguing that dating men perceived as "below your level" causes greater ego harm when they reject you, because…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) arguing that dating men perceived as "below your level" causes greater ego harm when they reject you, because you internalize the rejection as a reflection of your worth. The speaker advises against dating "twos" or "threes," links the behavior to underlying confidence and self-esteem issues, and briefly offers coaching help to address those issues.

Queen is it? Why was my ego hurt by a guy that I knew couldn't provide for me ended things? This is the danger of getting with guys that you know will are not on your level. Because it hurts more when a two or a three says no to you than a nine or a ten. Because you're like, if a two or three is saying no, then I must be a zero or a one.
Don't. Don't get with the two or threes. Don't give them any life. Don't get five or sixes any life. Girl. Yeah, of course your ego's hurt.
But please understand that part of the reason why you went for the two or three. Because there's a confidence and self esteem issue that we got to work on. If you want help working with that, you probably want to work with me.