A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White giving practical dating advice: practice talking to many different men (use online swiping as practice rather than assuming every match is a future husband) to build confidence, and avoid putting men on a pedestal. The speaker frames idolizing a man as a moral/religious problem for Christian viewers.
Hey, Daisy said I need to have you on my earpiece while dating. Nah, girl, you just need to get into my program. So you know what the tea is? You know why, like, you. You. You just need to talk to a lot of different guys to practice, right? Here's the. Here's the trick that y' all aren't privy to.
You got. When you're online, you are swiping for your husband. And I think it's going to be important for you to swipe just to practice dating and talking to men, right? So if you have the mentality like, oh, my God, this can be my husband, then dating is going to feel like do or die. And every time he's not your husband, you're going to feel like you're going to die. Girl, talk to all these guys. Use them as practice. There's a reason why, girl, this mouth and more race than one gets what it wants. It's well practiced, and it is because I've practiced and I want y' all to as well. I always hear a lot of women talking about, oh, my God, when there's a hot guy around. I don't know what to say, girl. I have my. My. My head down, my eyes, you know, can't look at them in the eyes, girl. It's giving 1920s. Like, I can't look at the white man, right? Like, no, girl, practice with all men so that when you're so in practice of talking with men and having that confidence, doesn't matter whether he's hot or cold, you can talk to all of them because they're all the same to you. Because when you're talking to men, it's about you, it's not about them, right? A lot of women are making dating about them.
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And for the Christian girls out there, if you make them, if you center a man, it is like making him an idol. And you shall have no idols before the Lord, right? Okay.
