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What's the deal with dating a consistent man?

Name: What's the deal with dating a consistent man?
Uploaded: 2024-05-28T13:01:47+00:00
Duration: 20 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short monologue by Anwar White (YouTube, May 28, 2024) offering relationship advice about dating "consistent" men. The speaker addresses listeners who…

28 May 2024 · 0 min

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A short monologue by Anwar White (YouTube, May 28, 2024) offering relationship advice about dating "consistent" men. The speaker addresses listeners who worry that a reliable partner will "eventually mess up," reframes human imperfection, and emphasizes building relationship conflict skills (managing emotions and communicating) so partners can "pick up that shoe together."

Pumpkin said, I'm dating a consistent man. My anxiety is just waiting for the other shoe to drop. I hear this every week because my clients are finding really high quality men, and they're like, he's gonna f? Ck it up. He's gonna f it up. And guess what, girl? He is gonna up.
Why? Because he's human, and no one is perfect. But what you want to make sure that you and he has is the ability, the skills, the actual relationship conflict skills to be able to pick up that shoe together.
Right? If you don't know how to manage your mind and your feelings and your heart when this shit happens and be able to communicate, well, then the drop of the shoe, it's over, girl.