Anwar White explains the difference between men who chase and men who pursue. Chasers act on their own pace, give brief attention, then move on once they've "tagged" someone. The advice: don't engage with chasers. Focus on men who actually pursue.
Kiori said. Any insight on a man chasing you and then playing once they get you?
There's a difference between a man who pursues you and a man that chases you.
A man that chases you.
Will do things on his pace, not yours.
Never engage with a man who chases.
You. Want to focus on a man who pursues?
Yeah.
So yeah, guess what? When I am 8 years old and I'm playing tag and I chase someone and I tag them and they're it, I'm done with them and that's how these men are treating you when they chase you. Don't gag on the attention. You can get attention from any guy.
It's not that hard.
Catch his pace. Set a boundary on what you want your pace to be and if he doesn't respect that, he's out. They call me the love umpire in my program because I'm always saying that these guys are out.