What's the importance of asking someone for help?

Uche said, I asked my siblings, and they've been so, so unsupportive. That's the gag. When you start asking people for help, you're actually going to realize who are the. What real relationships you have and which ones don't. Because I already know the people that are in here. Y' all probably give too much anyway. Boundary violation. So when you start to ask, you start to say, oh, this person was never for me to begin with. And then, and this is what happens in my program, you. You have to let go of a third of your relationships, because those people were never it. But please understand that that is a win, because you only want to be in relationships that are balanced, that are actually where people are giving more to you than you are giving to them. Not because you are selfish, but because this is what, this is the essence of feminine energy. If you have relationships that you're doing more for them than they doing for you and their adult relationships, please understand that it's a, It's a, It's a boundary violation and that you're in your masculine.