Anwar White delivers a candid YouTube monologue advising women that a 'big D' is often sought because people are tense and disorganized; he argues that creating a relaxed life through boundaries and feminine energy leads to more frequent orgasms and greater relationship satisfaction, and that smaller partners can be sufficient once one is relaxed.
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Can I be honest with you all?
Please.
Okay.
A lot of you all might feel like you need a big D because it is the only way that you're able to relax.
And release.
And the work is not needing a D to do that. The work is actually creating a life for yourself where that naturally happens for you. A lot of you all cannot get get to your O.
Because you're so tense.
Because your life is a freaking mess. And your life is running you and you are not running your life.
If you feel like you are one of those girls.
Realize you've got to get your life together.
So that you don't need a 10 incher so that you can relax once a week.
Yeah.
You will get your O much more often if you got a relaxed life.
You hear me, ladies?
So get that shit together. And you, you know what will happen after that? A six will get you there.
A six will get you there. And guess what? He doesn't even have to go. He doesn't have to do all that to get you there.
Okay? Yeah. But here's the thing. You can create a relaxed life through your boundaries and through your feminine energy.
That's what it looks like.
Yeah.
I hope this is helpful for you all.
Because.
This is part of the dating life. This is part of relationshiping.
Sometimes guys don't want to do that.
They want to roll. They don't want to hit, especially if they love you. Any random mofo can hit pound.
But guys that are into you will want to roll with you.
And if you're tense, you won't be able to get off with that.
And one of the most demoralizing things for a man is not being able to satisfy you.
Right. The girls are saying, I never came. I never came, girl.
There is this one character in Mortal Kombat and he used to freeze the guys sub0t.
That might be where your cooch is. No shade.
So you gotta, like I said before, create the life that you need.
To find pleasure and satisfaction not just in the bedroom, but outside of it as well.
