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What's the reason why you're being annoyed with the guys you date?

Name: What's the reason why you're being annoyed with the guys you date?
Uploaded: 2024-05-14T13:46:39+00:00
Duration: 33 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube advice monologue where the speaker responds to a caller (Kiki) about feeling annoyed by men she dates. The speaker argues that recurring…

14 May 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube advice monologue where the speaker responds to a caller (Kiki) about feeling annoyed by men she dates. The speaker argues that recurring annoyance signals that the men are triggering parts of the caller; the focus should be on the caller's internal reactions and readiness for relationship work, not solely on the partners' behaviors.

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Just called me. Kiki said, how come every man I try to talk to ends up annoying me and I don't want to talk to them? Is it something I need to work on, or is it part of dating until you meet the right person? Well, I always tell my clients that I think it's really important. I know that they're ready to be in a relationship when whatever these guys are doing doesn't affect them. The fact that you're calling these guys annoying lets me know that they're triggering parts of you. And that's what we need to focus on. And not necessarily, like, what these guys are doing or saying.
Like, these guys can do and say anything that they want to do.
It is only when it affects you that we have to start to explore. So that's what I would offer to you.