Short spoken-piece by Anwar White advising against dating men in medical school (or early residency/law school), based on 15 years of experience; argues they lack time, may use partners for emotional support, and often leave relationships after graduation. Recommends older/more established doctors instead of med students or early-career physicians.
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Okay. Someone's a Karen Said. Hey, Anwar. What if my guy is going into med school and it's not a good time to propose in two years? Here's what I will tell you. I've been doing this work for 15 years. I've never had a client get engaged to a man that was in med school.
I've never seen it.
He's not going to have time for you and you're going to resent him. And no shade. And I've seen this happen all the time.
They're going to get with another med school girl. It's. It's. It's giving Grey's Anatomy.
What is going to happen and what I've seen happen a lot.
He will use you for emotional support to get through one of the hardest things in his life. And once he graduates, he's not going to need you anymore.
Similar for law school.
As well.
Don't wait thinking you're gonna cash out. This is what some of the girls do for those. Those college basketball and football players. They drop you once they graduate. Yeah. Don't ever get with a guy in med school.
And no shade girl. But don't if he's in his residency. If he's early in his career, I wouldn't do it either. Later doctors are the way to go. Not like older doctors. Not younger doctors.
They're still getting ran around through their crazy schedules.
