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What's wrong with what you are attracted to?

Name: What's wrong with what you are attracted to?
Uploaded: 2024-02-05T14:41:44+00:00
Duration: 15 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short excerpt from a YouTube video (creator: Anwar White) that asks why people are attracted to certain types of partners. The speaker argues attraction…

5 Feb 2024 · 0 min

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Short excerpt from a YouTube video (creator: Anwar White) that asks why people are attracted to certain types of partners. The speaker argues attraction is often shaped by socialization (culture, who you grow up around) and personal/familial trauma (e.g., chasing a parent’s love), illustrated with brief examples.

Jackie said, what's wrong with what we are attracted to? Oftentimes, what we're attracted to is based on trauma, actually, and it's not. And here's the thing. Most of the time, what you're attracted to is based on how you're socialized. If you were born in China, you would be into Chinese man girl.
But you're born in America and you grew up around black people. So you think that black. And maybe you had to chase your father's love, and so now you feel like, oh, my God, I love black men. Now, don't get me wrong, Black men are sexy.
But.
We get to. I want you to be attracted to the man that treats you the best. How's that?