Dating coach Anwar White explains why waiting for exclusivity matters: early sex triggers oxytocin in women, creating attachment, while men's vasopressin drops, weakening their bonding. A real emotional connection takes about six weeks.
Yoga said, when is it okay to be intimate with a man you're dating? So my job is not to police women's bodies, especially as a man.
As a dating coach, I will tell you that I generally recommend not being intimate until you're in an exclusive relationship.
And I say that because it changes everything.
It's 2025. Do whatever the hell you want to do. I just know that when you are.
Intimate with a man, chemically speaking, his vasopressin will decrease and that's his bonding hormone. And he will not feel as bonded to you during the courtship when you are intimate with him early on because the deeper emotional connection hasn't happened yet. And it generally takes six weeks minimum for that to happen. That's why when I hear the girls say, my man said that he wants to be with me at, you know, after date two, I'm always like, really? He had an emotional. A deep emotional connection with you at that time? I think not, girl. It's game. Okay. So what I want you to understand is.
Sex without the emotional, deeper connection from his part means nothing. But on your part, you're going to be chemically bonded to him because the oxytocin that you're going to receive is going to actually like. It's going to connect happiness with this man. Yeah.
And you're going to be stuck. And you already know.
A girlfriend, a sister, a co worker, a cousin who is dematized. And everybody knows that that man is worth.
Nothing, worth his weight in dirt.
And you can't tell her nothing. You can't tell her anything because she's chemically bonded to this man.
She can't say anything.
Yeah. So that's why. That's why I would say that.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
