Use the holiday break to talk about what you want next in your relationship. Seed the idea 12 months before you want it to happen, then revisit every quarter. Expect 6 to 9 months from conversation to engagement.
Questions this video answers
Six to nine months.
At the 12-month mark.
Every quarter until the 18-month mark.
Rich session said one year and no proposal. Should I stand on business and leave? No, girl, no.
Here's what you do. And I was just having this conversation with some of my relationship ladies because on Monday nights, it's my relationship group. So here's the gag. Okay? Are you ready? The holiday season is the perfect time to talk about your next milestones and next steps in your relationship because everyone is going to be so open to be talking about it. We're going to feel very nostalgic. We're going to be feeling very open. So this is where you would be like, you know, let's say it's between Christmas and New Year's. On New Year's Eve you want to talk about, or even on New Year's Day you want to say, oh, my God, what an amazing year 2025 is going to be. We definitely have to talk about, you know, where our relationship is going to be in 2025. Okay.
And then you let him know. You are gonna have to let him know, yeah, I would love to be engaged next year or this upcoming year. And let him sit with that. Let him marinate on that for a little bit. Because the thing about, like, engagement in marriage and things like that is that they're gonna need a good six to nine months to make it happen. In my program, we lay the seed at the 12 month mark. We revisit it every quarter until we're at the 18 month mark. Okay. And then we let him do what he needs to do. Okay, I hope that's helpful.
