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When is the best time to do it during courtship?

Name: When is the best time to do it during courtship?
Uploaded: 2024-04-03T12:13:48+00:00
Duration: 24 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: This short YouTube clip (Anwar White) answers a viewer question about how long to "make him wait" before having sex during courtship. White advises…

3 Apr 2024 · 0 min

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This short YouTube clip (Anwar White) answers a viewer question about how long to "make him wait" before having sex during courtship. White advises against treating it as a tactic of making a man wait; instead he emphasizes understanding a woman’s sexual agency and the emotional/chemical consequences of having sex before exclusivity. He argues that if a woman has sex before exclusivity the man will be less incentivized to commit (less chemically bonded) while the woman may feel more bonded to him, so it often undermines chances for exclusivity. White frames this as professional dating-coach guidance rather than a prescriptive rule for women's choices.

Yes, honey. All right, let me see what the girls are talking about. Julia said, amar girl. Thank you, because that is my name. How long do I make him wait for the deed? Okay, make him wait is wild because it is not about making him wait. It is about.
Really understanding the power of your. Of your punani. Right. You have to know that that changes everything. And when you let that be a situation in the courtship, he will never feel incentivized to be committed and exclusive with you. You like, you ruin your chances. And some of the girls think that, oh, my God, if I do this, he's going to like me more. Chemically speaking, he won't. He'll actually feel less bonded to you, but you will feel chemically bonded to him. So it actually does not work for you. I always tell my girls, my ladies in my programs, you're grown women and you have agency over your body. So as a man, I'm not going to tell you what to do. But as your dating coach, I will tell you that it doesn't serve you to do that before. Exclusivity.
Yeah.