Anwar White says don't ask "What are we?" because it gives away your power. Instead, state what you want and what makes you happy. Have the exclusivity talk around two to three months, and if he won't commit by then, let it go.
Tyler said, when is a good time to bring up the what are we? Conversation. So first of all, don't ever have a conversation and ask, what are we?
When you do that, you lose all your power. Who gives an F what he thinks we are? What you need to be clear about is what you want first and foremost. And when you are ready, you need to tell him what's going to make you happy and what is what you would like. And then you step back and you see what he says. The gag is that.
This conversation needs to happen between the two and three month mark. If that's what you're feeling. If he's not ready to commit at that point, you got to let it go.
And I tell you this with all seriousness, I can't tell you how many women I have coached and I have told them the same information and the guy has said, I'm not ready right now. I need another week. I need another month. And they've waited. And you know what happens to those women? They break up within a month after getting exclusive with a guy or in a committed relationship because the man was never ready.
A man knows within two to three months. Please believe me when I say this.
He knows.
So if that's where you are, let it be known, okay?
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
