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When should you tell a guy that you have children?

Name: When should you tell a guy that you have children?
Uploaded: 2024-08-30T00:00:39+00:00
Duration: 1 min 21 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube advice clip by Anwar White about when to tell a man you have children. The speaker recommends disclosing children early — on online…

30 Aug 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube advice clip by Anwar White about when to tell a man you have children. The speaker recommends disclosing children early — on online profiles and by the first date — and framing the information proudly as a test of a partner’s seriousness. The speaker presents disclosure as an evaluation tool (watch for follow-up questions vs. a nonchalant "oh, okay") and offers example phrasing and a concrete example: "I have two kids... they're 6 and 10."

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August 30, 2024.

6 and 10.

What questions do you have? Can you give advice on when to tell a man you're dating you have kids? It should be on your online profiles, definitely. And you should let them know, like on the first, on the first date, because that's part of your everyday life.
I think letting men know that you have kids is such a great evaluator about whether he is serious or not with you.
Okay.
A lot of women, A lot of women that I talk to that are single mothers are feeling like, oh, my God, I, I don't, I don't feel great about being a single mother and dating. Girl, your kids are one of the best things that you can have while you're dating. Because a guy that's not serious about you, he's not gonna, he's not gonna want to, like, even play games with you because he knows what's involved here.
Okay.
Girl, be proud of it. Use it as an evaluation tool. Let them know pretty quickly. Yeah, I have two kids. They're amazing. They're 6 and 10.
Love them so much, matter of factly, proudly, and see what their response is to that. If they're like, oh, okay.
They'Re not into it. If they're like, tell me more about them. Right? If they're asking follow up questions, that's what we want to see.
Okay.