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When to ‘Drop It’ When Dating #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #singleblackfemale

Name: When to ‘Drop It’ When Dating #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating #singleblackfemale
Uploaded: 2025-01-07T14:17:33+00:00
Duration: 41 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short conversational dating-advice clip where two speakers give explicit timelines for relationship progression. Speaker A advises concrete cutoffs: ask…

7 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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Short conversational dating-advice clip where two speakers give explicit timelines for relationship progression. Speaker A advises concrete cutoffs: ask out within one week, committed relationship within 2.5–3 months, engagement/marriage within two years; asserts men often decide within six months and that he places multiple clients into relationships regularly. Speaker B reacts and questions the short timelines and age/context sensitivity.

Questions this video answers

Within one week.

Within two and a half to three months.

Within two years.

Within the first six months.

If he hasn't asked you out within a week, you need to drop it. If you are not in a committed relationship within two and a half to three months, you need to drop it.
Ooh.
If you are not engaged or married within two years, you need to drop it.
These are very short numbers to me. I think that the two years, in my opinion, seems to be an age thing. If I was 26, 27, and someone was ready to marry me in two years, I'd be like, oh, have we, like, really experienced more yet? Are we in a financial place for marriage?
A man knows pretty quickly. I get at least three or four women into relationships every week. I have an engagement every month. What I will tell you is this. He knows probably within the first six months, and then after that, he is saving for a ring and a wedding. I literally have five men that are doing it for my clients right now.
Wolf told me once. Wolf's our engineer here. You told me a year to make someone your girlfriend, and you're saying two to three months?
Let me answer that. And this is why it's important for women to have boundaries. You shouldn't be waiting a year. Whoever knows that you are it will make it happen.