Anwar White argues you should wait for an exclusive relationship before sex. He claims the chemicals released during sex bond women to men and cloud their judgment, while men's bonding chemicals drop after, explaining why men ghost.
About sex timing for sex.
Y' all are grown women. Do whatever the hell you want to do. I will say this. I think that during. I always recommend for my clients to be intimate after they're in an exclusive, committed relationship, because.
Sex will chemically bond you to men. And if you haven't properly vetted them, you might be bonded to a man that's no good for you. And I think we all have those friends, sisters, cousins, friends, best friends, mothers, colleagues that are completely diplomatized because they had sex with somebody and then he's like, a total ass.
So I think there should be a lot of investment.
In that before we decide to engage in that. Also, once you do have sex, chemically, you will change. You will change, and your decision making skills will also change.
You won't be able to reason in the same way that you did before. So you want to keep your head, girl. You want to keep your.
Ph balanced and your head clear.
Yeah. The other thing that I think is very important is when a man has sex, his bonding hormone, his vasopressin, will decrease, and so he will actually feel less bonded to you than he did before after sex.
So that's why a lot of guys, quote, unquote, hit it and quit it. They literally don't feel anything for you after sex.
And unfortunately, so that's why a lot of men ghost after it.
Okay?
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