Anwar White says stop waiting for apps to work. Go to the same coffee shop every week, join hobby groups, and hunt at Trader Joe's on Saturday mornings. Skip Walmart. Home Depot is full of married guys.
Okay, let me see. Where to meet men besides the app girl. Here's the tea. Y' all are gonna have to go outside. Now, I know some of the girls in the wintertime are acting like hibernating bears.
But you're gonna have to go outside. There are men out there that are active, that have a full life.
Yeah.
The way that I think about this in terms of going outside is you want to have a Cheers place. You want to have a place every week that you go to at the same day, the same time where everybody knows your name. I think it's important to have your own hobbies.
Okay. I think that's important. So doing something outside of your house that is hobby, like, hobby focused. And then I think it's a. It's. You should have a place where you hunt.
That like you go there and you on the hunt. Girl. It's National Geographic up in here. Yeah. Someone said go to go grocery shopping Sunday morning. Saturday mornings and Sunday mornings are the best because that's where the men are going to shop for their meal prep. That or late night on a weekday. I'm talking like 9pm.
Okay.
That if I was going to be hunting at the grocery store, that's where I would be.
But I would mostly do it on a Saturday. Saturday and Sunday. Someone said, I'm not going to lie. I go hunt at Home Depot. It's 50. 50. Most of those guys at Home Depot are married. So if somebody's telling you to go to Home Depot to find a guy, most of them are married and they're going to Home Depot because their wives told them that the door is broken and they need a replacement.
Yeah.
Okay.
And I always say this, but I think it's very important.
When you're going outside, I think it's very important for you to go to places that have either a visible or invisible velvet rope. What does that mean? You need to go to places where everybody is not going to be.
So even though it's cute and fun to go grocery shopping and regular shopping at Walmart and Target.
You might not be able to hunt well there.
I would be at a Trader Joe's. I would be at a Whole Foods.
Yeah.
I would be at a Trader Joe's. Trading Joe's.
The other thing I will say too, is always go to, like, if you have a certain kind of guy that you like, go to the. The restaurant with that cuisine. And you don't need to go to the fancy places. Go to like the. The mid places, the authentic places.
Yeah. Very, very important.
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