Where do you find black men?

Okay. Someone said, where do you find the black men?

You don't find them, especially not in this economy.

Yeah. Here's the thing, on a more serious note, the black men that you generally want.

The black man that you generally want to find, you want to find while you're in school with them. That's when you want to find them. But if you can't find them.

There.

You did say close to midnight. I'm crying. Here's the thing.

You're gonna need to get a referral from a friend.

Everyone knows a black guy that is a great guy, but they're not feeling. Even if your friend says, oh, I don't know anybody, each and everybody knows a guy.

At work.

You know.

In the community, at church, what have you.

Referralty.

That's how I've seen it. Also. And y' all don't want to hear this, but I'm gonna. I'm gonna spill the tea because I think y' all need to hear this.

That guy that has been checking for you for multiple years, and you haven't given him the time of day.

He just might be.

Your person.

And you just might not be ready for that kind of love.

Y' all don't want to hear it. That's okay. That's okay. That's okay. I'm just saying.

I see it every month. Every month, I see it.

Yeah, y' all are gagging because each and every one of you has that guy.

Y' all are rebuking.

Some people are saying you're screaming too loud, Anwar.

So I'm just saying. I'm just saying I'mma leave that with you, because guess what? Most of those guys are black. That's where you find your black guy.

Mm.

Darlene said, I have one. He is so nice. And I'm awful. Stop being awful.

So I. I told y' all it was going to be worth the wait. You don't want to hear this, but some of y' all need to hear this. And next year on Easter, when he rises again, y' all better rise with that mother effing ring. That's all I gotta say.

You hear me?

Yeah, honey. Both. Both of them. Both of the rings, honey. Not just one.

Both of them.