A short dating-advice monologue by a dating coach (Anwar White) advising women where to meet men offline. The speaker emphasizes curated, 'invisible velvet rope' spaces—airport and hotel lounges, bookstore coffee shops, sporting events, volunteering—over common public places like Walmart, gas stations, and malls.
Chapters
Hey, girl, I want to just let you know that I am on location. I'm on assignment. Don't ever say that I did not do anything for you as your favorite dating coach. I am in the AMEX lounge, the airport lounge here at LaGuardia, and the men are menning. I've been here. So girls always ask me, how do I meet guys offline. Like, where do I need to go? Well, first, there's not like a room where every man is. But I will tell you that you want to focus on places that have an invisible velvet rope that not everybody.
Can get into, because some of the ladies are giving life to these men at Walmart, at gas stations, at the mall.
You don't want to do that, girl.
That is free entrance for all.
And you are not that, girl.
You are for the few. You are not for the many. So if the guys come coming up to you in those places, just give them a, oh, no, I don't have any change. And keep him pushing, girl, because we don't have any time for that. I want you to be in curated spaces. I want you to be at airport lounge and hotel lounges alone. I want you to be at sporting events with your girls. You to be at a bookstore coffee shop alone. I want you to be volunteering alone. I want you to be literally doing the things that you love, but making.
Sure that there are guys there.
Ultimately, you want to do the things that really empower you and lighten you up, because then you will be radiating joy and happiness and be at your best self, and that will be a magnet for so many different people out there. So I hope this helps as you navigate your dating life. Girl, get outside and get to these curated spaces. Don't try to talk to guys in the wild, because the men that are out in the wild trying to pick you up at the mall, at the gas stations are wild. Walmart is wild. Those guys, it's a game for them. They are literally just picking up as many women as possible to see how many they can. They're getting seven or eight numbers every day, and then by the end of the week, they have 50 numbers, and they're just going down the line and seeing who's going to sleep with them. Girl, that's not you. Again, you are for the few and not the many. So you need to be in spaces that are for the few and not the many. Let me give you some more tea. Like organizational events, like, if you're in the fraternity, sorority situation, you can go to those sorts of events. Yeah. Okay, girl, I have to get to my flight, but I hope that this was helpful.
