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Why appreciation and encouragement are important?

Name: Why appreciation and encouragement are important?
Uploaded: 2024-04-17T14:38:09+00:00
Duration: 1 min 8 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short coaching-style YouTube monologue by Anwar White advising that showing appreciation, gratitude, and acknowledgement to male partners increases…

17 Apr 2024 · 1 min

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A short coaching-style YouTube monologue by Anwar White advising that showing appreciation, gratitude, and acknowledgement to male partners increases their motivation (described as "raising his testosterone") and reduces resentment and nagging that cause disconnection. The speaker recommends framing appreciation as a proactive strategy or "game" to get desired behavior, and relates learning this from older female relatives whose approach yielded returns "tenfold."

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So many of us are. You initiate. You help to raise his testosterone by your. You initiate that by showing appreciation and gratitude and acknowledgement.
And they will do that lovingly.
Right. Many of us have seen our mothers, grandmothers get, like, resentful and, like, not want to, like, you know, complaining and nagging all of the time, girl. Testosterone d downer. You know what I mean? He's not gonna want to do anything, and you're gonna create disconnection in the relationship.
Yeah. So I wanted to share that with you all, because I know y'. All. Some of us, like, want to complain or we want to come with a level of expectation, Right?
No, don't do that, girl. Yeah. Think of it as a game. Let's raise his testosterone as much as possible.
Yeah. I used to gag when my mom would do that. I'd be like, she's so weak. Right? Ugh. She's. Why is she doing that? Why is she gassing him up? So. Because she knew something that I didn't know, which is you do this and you get whatever you want because it comes back to you tenfold. Okay. So I wanted to share that with you all because I think maybe a lot of us.
Weren'T giving. And for many of us who grew up telling ourselves we. We don't want to be like our mothers, sometimes they have some. Some things to impart to us. Yeah. Okay. I hope that was helpful for you.