Anwar White explains why men text regularly then disappear: don't try to figure out the why. Judge by what he actually does, not his reasons. If your future husband wouldn't ghost you, leave and talk to other men instead.
Okay. Cocolita said, hi. Amore. Can you explain to me why a guy texts you regularly, asks you about your day, but disappears, then comes back and does again? It's not our job. If you're asking me why questions, you've already lost.
You're playing detective. Work you're giving svu. Your job is not to be a detective. Your job is not to try to figure out the why. Your job is to honor the what, and the what is that he ghosts you.
Please. When things happen in your love life, I want you to ask yourself this question. Would my future husband do this? And if the answer is no, you gotta go.
Yeah.
Don't play SVU detective. Bom, bom.
Okay.
Roxanne said, do you have any clients from Vegas? I sure do. I sure do.
When you're trying to figure out the why, it is because you are trying to regain control in a situation that you feel completely lost in.
It's not your job to try to regain control. Your job is just to step away and talk to two or three other men.
Replace, replace, replace, replace.
Okay?
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
