A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) responding to a viewer question from "Tashia" about why she is attracting married men. The speaker argues married men pursue such women because those women appear to offer things they're not getting from their wives (e.g., revealing dress, loud personality, perceived eagerness for attention) and cautions listeners not to engage with married men.
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Tashia said, can you tell me why I'm attracting married men? Like, no, honey, a lot of women will attract men that are married because those women represent things that they're not getting from their wives. Whether it's maybe you're showing a lot of skin when you're dressing. And this is not me being a prude or trying to be whatever. So they're thinking, oh, my God, I'm going to be able to do whatever I want. Maybe I'll go back door, right? And I can't do that with my wife or what have you. Right. That's how they're thinking about these things. Right. Maybe you have a very loud personality. Right. Sometimes men will be attracted to that. Because what he's saying is that I'll be able to get this girl really easily because she's desperate for attention. Now, I'm not saying this to shade anybody. I'm saying this so that you understand what is attracting some of these married guys so that you can stop.
Also, a lot of these married guys will pick you up in the wild. That's why I say, don't do it.