A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White addressing women of color who struggle with setting boundaries. The speaker attributes boundary challenges to cultural upbringing—specifically mothers and grandmothers modeling self-sacrifice—and links this pattern to difficulties in romantic relationships. The clip closes with an offer of help: follow for tips or book a consultation via a link.
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Hey, my love. If you are a woman of color and you have had some issues with your boundaries, I want you to keep on listening because I'm gonna go through why that is. One of the things that I know for sure is that when you are growing up, there are no boundaries in your household. You can't say no to your parents. And that is because our mothers and our grandmothers don't teach us to have boundaries. Their definition of love is to self sacrifice. And when we go back generations, we'll realize that we never were allowed to have boundaries. So that is what is being taught in our households as we are raised. This is why it is very hard for a lot of women of color to actually be successful in love. I want to change that. That's why I do what I do when it comes to working with women of color to level up their love lives. Now, if you want help with that, you can definitely continue to follow me because I will give you tips on that. Or you can click on the link above and book a consultation call with me.