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Why can't you find suitors?

Name: Why can't you find suitors?
Uploaded: 2024-03-12T11:44:49+00:00
Duration: 1 min 4 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short advice monologue (YouTube) in which the speaker responds to a listener who feels they intimidate men and cannot find suitors. The speaker…

12 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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A short advice monologue (YouTube) in which the speaker responds to a listener who feels they intimidate men and cannot find suitors. The speaker counsels observing partners' behavior rather than stating demands, and emphasizes balancing masculine and feminine energy to attract healthier partners. The clip contrasts outcomes when a person gives predominantly masculine energy (attracting either overly feminine or toxic/misaligned men).

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Kara said, I'm told I intimidate men because I know what I want. Can't find suitors.
Okay, so here's the thing. Your job is not to share with them what you want. Your job is to observe what they give. Yeah. I think that anytime you feel like you're in court and you're in front of a judge or feeling interrogated in front of a lawyer, it can always be intimidating. A lot of this work that I do with my very successful and smart clients is just learning how to balance the masculine and the feminine. Because here's the thing, girl. If you're giving a lot of masculine energy, and you might be, what will happen is that you will attract two kinds of guys, because relationships are about compliments, not about clones. So you'll attract the guy that is in his dominant feminine or. Or in his hyper or toxic masculine, who will try to make you get into your feminine. Yeah, this is why it's good to have a great, healthy mix of both.