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Why Dating the Nice Guy Feels Bad! #datingadvice #datingtips #datingboundaries #singleblackfemale #s

Name: Why Dating the Nice Guy Feels Bad! #datingadvice #datingtips #datingboundaries #singleblackfemale #s
Uploaded: 2023-03-09T21:44:00+00:00
Duration: 59 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Anwar White (dating coach) addresses smart, successful women—particularly women of color—explaining why the common expectation to feel "butterflies"…

9 Mar 2023 · 1 min

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Anwar White (dating coach) addresses smart, successful women—particularly women of color—explaining why the common expectation to feel "butterflies" around potential partners is misleading. She argues that healthy attraction should feel calm, peaceful, and authentic rather than performative; "boring" partners ("nice guys") can be safer and more satisfying. The clip ends with a call to follow her and book coaching.

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This is such a good question. And I run into this every week. I'm a dating coach for smart and successful women, specifically women of color, and I help my clients get into the best relationship of their lives. And oftentimes it's with nice guys. And so I get this pushback a lot. And the reason why this happens so often is because we're so used to actually feeling butterflies when we meet guys, and we think that that's a really good sign, and it's not, actually. You're supposed to feel calm and at peace and whole and your full, authentic self. So many of us are conditioned and programmed to perform for men. And when you feel like you don't have to perform for men, it can feel boring. But I want to offer to everyone out there that boring can also mean safe. Lean into the nice guy. I'm pretty sure you will not regret it, or regret it most of the time. I will say, follow me for more information on dating, and book a call with me if you want work.