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Why did I want to coach Black and Brown women?

Name: Why did I want to coach Black and Brown women?
Uploaded: 2024-08-24T22:00:20+00:00
Duration: 53 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue by dating coach Anwar White addressing why he coaches Black and Brown women. He argues that culturally conditioned habits of…

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A short YouTube monologue by dating coach Anwar White addressing why he coaches Black and Brown women. He argues that culturally conditioned habits of overworking in other domains are counterproductive in dating: smart, successful women should do less ("do half as much" or "do nothing") to achieve better romantic results. The excerpt uses repetition and provocative metaphors to emphasize the counterintuitive strategy.

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We do nothing. Which, and this is one of the reasons why I'm a dating coach for black and brown women, because you're taught that I have to do twice as much to get half of everything, and in love, it is the exact opposite. You have to do half as much to get twice as far.
It's a mind f.
Everything that you've learned, you literally have to do the opposite of if you're a smart and successful woman in this. In this world to get, like, to get your guy to be successful in dating.
It's crazy.
Okay.
Who caught that? Tea?
Don't do. Don't do a damn thing. You have no arms. You have no legs, girl. You're blind. You're mute, girl. You're Helen Keller and Stephen Hawking all rolled into one.
Girl. You're basically dead, girl. No shade.