Anwar White explains why stable men prefer coffee dates over flashy first dates. Coffee dates show genuine interest without performative displays, while expensive outings can signal insecurity and financial instability rather than readiness for commitment.
Ashlyn said. What do you think about coffee dates? I like them. I recommend them for sure. A lot of people don't like them. I think it's a really great way to just understand, do I like this person? Do I want to get to know more of him?
And actually, I think some people think it's low effort. Guys that are more stable will actually lean into coffee dates versus trying to, like, impress you on a first date. They just, they want to know if you're worthy of being impressed first and foremost. So they'll be more apt to do a coffee date. The guys that will put out like all the stops are oftentimes guys that are want to show things right, have the BMW, but, you know.
Don'T have the money to really pay for it. Guys that are still renting and don't own property. Right.
Guys that do coffee dates oftentimes.
Are wealthier and want to understand if you're. If there's an ROI.
To getting to know you more, if you're worth it. If you're worth it, I'm going to invest in you, but if not, we'll leave it where it is.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
