A short YouTube monologue arguing that couples should live together before marriage (either before or after engagement) to assess day-to-day compatibility and share household labor. The speaker links lack of cohabitation and unequal domestic/parenting contribution to burnout and rising divorce, citing divorce lawyers' observations.
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Rose said. Do you feel it's smart to wait to move in with your man until engagement has begun? Everyone has a different way of doing this. I definitely think it's important to be living together before you get married, though, whether that's adding at, you know, after engagement or slightly before engagement. Because a lot of these men are. Are not ready or like, hoard horrible to live with. No shade. Like, it just feels like a child before having a child. And like, you want. You want to be able to live with someone and it be additive that it lessens your labor. So instead of you cleaning a whole house, you only have to clean half of it and he's cleaning the other half. Right.
That's why so many people are getting divorced, because a lot of women are. Are like, marrying these guys and then having children with them. They have two children, and the guy is doing nothing. His job is subpar. So she's taking care of two kids, and he's also acting like a kid and working this, like, very stressful job, and it becomes too much and they burn out. It's one of the highest forms of divorce that's happening right now. This is what all of the divorce lawyers are saying.
Yeah.
So you definitely want to see how it is to live with him. Give you that Obama hand right there, honey. I was serious about it.
