A short YouTube monologue arguing that women should consider moving in with men before marriage to test whether partners contribute fairly to household labor. The speaker emphasizes that many relationships fail due to women becoming overburdened with unpaid domestic work, leading to burnout and divorce, especially when children are involved.
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And just FYI, I generally. Now it's up to the woman, of course, but in my program, I definitely support women moving in with guys first because it's. I think it's really important to understand what it takes to live with a guy. Nowadays, more guys are in their more feminine energy, where they want to be taken care of. And so actually living with them can be hell and can feel like additional labor, excess labor. And you want to see, can he hold his weight? Can he contribute to the household? The last thing that you want to do, and you probably have some girlfriends in this category, is they're working hard at their job and they come home, and then not only do they have to take care of themselves, but they also have to take care of a guy because he's not doing anything around the house. This is like, you know, if you talk to any divorce lawyer, this is the contribution that. This is. The majority of why people are getting divorced is because the women are burnt out because they're doing too much. Now, if you add a child or two on there, she's gone. You want to see, is it easier to live with him than it is to live without him? It's another part of your evaluation when you're thinking about, should I marry a guy or not?