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Why do I want all of you to focus on dating 30 40 years from now?

Name: Why do I want all of you to focus on dating 30 40 years from now?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:45:36.902182
Duration: 5 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (Anwar White, uploaded March 20, 2024) urging listeners to prioritize long-term practical compatibility in dating — thinking…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue (Anwar White, uploaded March 20, 2024) urging listeners to prioritize long-term practical compatibility in dating — thinking 30–40 years ahead — rather than short-lived physical attraction. The speaker contrasts fleeting chemistry with enduring actions like attending medical appointments and frames physical attractiveness as transient.

Celeste said. Okay, I'm talking to Ahmed. Yes.
Because here's. Here's the thing, and I know sometimes people don't like to hear that, but.
I want y' all to focus on.
Dating for 30 to 40 years from now. So what does that mean? I care more that he is taking you to all your doctor's appointments versus if he's hot or not? Because chemistry fades within 18 months.
And getting with a hot guy is actually not that hard. Well, it's. It's kind of like just getting a Louis Vuitton bag. It literally loses its luster after, like, a week or two, so.