Short monologue (YouTube video) discussing reasons men cheat yet remain in relationships. The speaker argues cheating is less about the partner and more about the man’s self-concept, feelings of failure (career, finances), desire for empowerment, and reactions to emasculation.
Major said, why does a man cheat on his girl but stay with her even if he's unhappy? So cheating actually has so doesn't have a lot to do with the partner. It actually has to do with one's own self concept and unhappiness in life. So like for example if a man.
Is poor, if a man is not where he's at in his career, if a man feels like he has no options he's going to cheat because he wants to feel, he wants to empower himself. He wants to feel powerful. Right. Now if a woman emasculates him he will also cheat. Right. But that actually happens less so than some of the other things that happen in his life. Yeah. So he stays because.
The cheating doesn't have much to do with her.
Yeah. And he will stay with her even if he's unhappy because he would rather have the emotional support, the sex, the attention, the ego boost of being with her than being alone.